My Soulmate is my Bestfriend

A soulmate is someone whom you have a deep connection—a connection so strong that it makes your being feel complete, healed and intact, like a perfect puzzle. You’ll be able to share everything with that person from your wildest dreams to your most shameful secrets, for they will be likely to be the best, and most genuine friend you’ll ever have. I am so glad I found mine in this lifetime.

When everything seem to be falling apart and when everyone seem to be moving forward, you’re sure that your soulmate will be there to be your rock and to remain by your side on your toughest days. They will know that you’re struggling even if you don’t say a word. They will know and understand exactly what you feel, and always says the right words to make you feel better. They will not sit and watch you suffer. They will not treat you like a baby, and sugarcoat things. They will speak the truth no matter how brutal it could be. They will not filter things, just to make you feel better. They will slap you with reality in the most subtle way possible. They will not tolerate your misbehavior or your wrong decisions, but they will also be the less judgmental among everyone. They will speak words of wisdom, but they will not insist for you to do as they say. They will support you even if they do not agree with you. They will be your shed on your stormy days, and they will celebrate with you on your sunny days.

In this world full of temporaries, they will be your constant. They will be there no matter how screwed you are, and they will always believe in you even if you don’t believe in yourself. They are the epitome of true love and friendship. They read your mind as if you are the same. They know your actions well enough to know your next move. Your connection will remain intact no matter how less time you spend with each other. You are each other’s perfect match. You complement each other and helps you bring out the best version of yourself.

To my soulmate, my sister, confidante, Serena to my Blair, Peyton to my Brooke, Betty to my Veronica, thank you for being you and for showing me what friendship should really be. Thank you for being less judgmental and for being my number supporter in all my indecisive and impulsive thoughts. Thank you for being my strength when I was weak, and for being the villain when I am playing the victim. Thank you for teaching me to be brave and to fight for my heart’s desire. Thank you for not tolerating my unpleasant behavior and horrible decisions. Thank you for sharing your experiences with me so I could avoid the same mistakes, and for just simply being there. Our friendship is not always rainbows and butterflies, we fight and argue a lot but that’s what makes it genuine. I am blessed to have you in my life even if you could be a headache at times. Cheers to friendship and years of craziness. Let’s make more stupid decisions and laugh it off, more coffee dates with deep conversations, and adventures together. Now it made sense why God didn’t give us biological sisters because He has always planned to make us one by heart. 

P.S. To whoever is reading this right now, I hope you find your soulmate too—they could be a friend, a lover, mentor, basically just anyone you feel a deep connection with.